Many problems stem from conflicts that are not conscious. For instance,
if a child is repeatedly scolded for taking the cookies out of the cookie
jar, that child may repress the wish to have a cookie and eventually
behave as if he or she does not want any cookies. In adult life
this could lead to a denial of needs in relationships. Repressed conflicts
can lead to symptoms such as depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts,
and difficulties in completing personal and career goals. Often people
will note that they are aware of their problems, but their behavior
doesn't change. This is often due to intellectual insight rather than
emotional awareness. People with substance use problems often take drugs
or alcohol to cope with intolerable feelings, to cope with the absence
of feelings, or to manage feelings of inadequacy. The ability to tolerate,
manage, and integrate difficult feelings can free the soul -the authentic
self- of the person.
If you are interested in a referral for counseling, please email
ACS at info@alcoholismcounseling.com
or call toll free 888-227-7541.
